Her Open Marriage Comments: “Do we believe loving someone means owning them?”

Rumors have been swirling for a very long time about the Hollywood power couple being in an open marriage and recently the rumors were fueled by comments that Mrs. Smith made in an interview. Among other things, the mother of two said, “Will can do whatever he wants” and because there was always a question mark hanging over the couple about whether or not their marriage was an open marriage, that seemed to just re-ignite the rumor flames.

The flames became such a wild fire that now Jada has decided that she needs to clarify what she was saying by making a statement on Facebook.  Although, please be warned, her “clarification” really does not answer the still looming question of whether or not her and her husband are in an open marriage. Her comments are below.

Jada Pinkett Smith:
Open marriage?

Let me first say this, there are far more important things to talk about in regards to what is happening in the world than whether I have an open marriage or not. I am addressing this issue because a very important subject has been born from discussions about my statement that may be worthy of addressing.

The statement I made in regard to, “Will can do whatever he wants,” has illuminated the need to discuss the relationship between trust and love and how they co-exist.

Do we believe loving someone means owning them? Do we believe that ownership is the reason someone should “behave”? Do we believe that all the expectations, conditions, and underlying threats of “you better act right or else” keep one honest and true? Do we believe that we can have meaningful relationships with people who have not defined nor live by the integrity of his or her higher self? What of unconditional love? Or does love look like, feel like, and operate as enslavement? Do we believe that the more control we put on someone the safer we are? What of TRUST and LOVE?

Should we be married to individuals who can not be responsible for themselves and their families within their freedom? Should we be in relationships with individuals who we can not entrust to their own values, integrity, and LOVE…for us???

Here is how I will change my statement…Will and I BOTH can do WHATEVER we want, because we TRUST each other to do so. This does NOT mean we have an open relationship…this means we have a GROWN one.

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Time Magazine’s 100 Most Influential People

Jay Z & Beyonce named two of the most influential people according to Time Magazine.  eet, never lets go of his dream, makes it to the top — and then keeps going, pursuing new outlets for his creativity and ambition.” Beyonce is also on the magazine’s list in her own right.   According to the article, “When all the work is done, she can step onto a stage and draw every single person in the audience into an intimate experience. No one has that voice, no one moves the way she moves, no one can hold an audience the way she does,” he writes, adding, “She and Jay-Z are the royal couple of culture, and she is the queen bee.”   This announcement is during the same week that the couple crosses the billion dollar threshold, according to the International Business Times.  The calculation was done after adding in the expected revenues from the Mrs. Carter World Tour, and the recent $50 million dollar endorsement deal with Pepsi.

Jay Z & Beyonce named two of the most influential people according to Time Magazine. eet, never lets go of his dream, makes it to the top — and then keeps going, pursuing new outlets for his creativity and ambition.”
Beyonce is also on the magazine’s list in her own right.   According to the article, “When all the work is done, she can step onto a stage and draw every single person in the audience into an intimate experience. No one has that voice, no one moves the way she moves, no one can hold an audience the way she does,” he writes, adding, “She and Jay-Z are the royal couple of culture, and she is the queen bee.”
This announcement is during the same week that the couple crosses the billion dollar threshold, according to the International Business Times.  The calculation was done after adding in the expected revenues from the Mrs. Carter World Tour, and the recent $50 million dollar endorsement deal with Pepsi.

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LiL Wayne top story in the news- Is he worth that slot?

Rapper LiL Wayne has been suffering from seizures for the past few months and has been hospitalized at Cedar Sinai. My sister works at the hospital LiL Wayne is being treated, but is unable to give details due to HIPAA. As know from many sources available to the public, it has overly exaggerated that he was on his death bed.

According to sources, Weezy overdosed on his beloved, very dangerous sizzurp, and is only JUST coming down from the high!

His latest tweet on Mar 15th:
Lil Wayne WEEZY F ‏@LilTunechi
I’m good everybody. Thx for the prayers and love.

My question is > How is this headline news?
We’ve got our brothas & sistas dying in the Motherland Africa everyday, but this rapper who has no regard for his black women and fellow black men is on the front line with HIS OWN INDUCED SICKNESS.

His lyrics are full of words promoted to disregard any respect a woman is deserving of.

His latest song: Love Me featuring Drake & Future shows exactly how these men feel and think of when it comes to the opposite sex. I wonder what these women are thinking about, or lack thee of, when being featured in such a music video. Is it something they would sing along to? Is the paycheck enough to make them not think and refuse to stand for woman-hood..?

The song includes lines stating:
Long as my Bi+@he3 love me.
These 304’s got pu$$ies like craters, can’t treat them like ladies.
As soon as i cum, I come to my senses.

See the video and remaining horrible so-called lyric here:

It seems women are still looked at as subjects only suitable for pro-creating and essentially pleasing men. What era are we living in? It’s quite sad most, not all, but most men still have this ice-age type mindset.

When will women, across the world, be looked at as the Queens that they are? Not, body parts to use, misuse, abuse and discard of when a new one comes along…

BLACK MEN, OPEN YOUR EYES AND MINDS TO A HIGHER STATE OF BEING. Treat women as they were your Mother or daughter. Respect for who gives you life, is respecting yourself.